Asking the girls

This weekend I completed a big project. Now it won't look like a big project, but trust me...it was. I had to color seven pictures. SEVEN and that's not easy when you are a perfectionist when it comes to coloring!

Anyways I live far away from all of my bridesmaids. So I couldn't take them out to dinner or do a fun activity and ask them. I don't make enough money to fly home every other weekend or I totally would have done this differently. However, I think that these little bottle are cute and I hope they will like them.

Each girl gets a message in a bottle. Inside is a picture of a Disney Princess and her sidekick. Wrapped around the picture is a small note to each girl telling them why they are important to me and asking them to be my bridesmaid. My sister's says Maid of Honor, but she already knows and accepted the challenge.

So what do you think?

Check it off

There is no doubt that checking things off of your "To-Do" list gives you an amazing feeling. I have felt this feeling lately, making it a point to check things off of my very own list. Yesterday we accomplished one very big thing.

Dave and I finally set a date and put a deposit down for a reception space!

That is right folks! On May 25, 2013 I will marry my best friend.

This is a big check off of our list because now we can finally start planning. Believe it or not it is a lot harder to plan a wedding from almost a thousand miles away than most may think. Dave and I really don't have funding for a wedding planner, so we are doing most of what we can ourselves. This is great for me because I hope one day that I can start my own wedding or event planning business. *I want to do a lot of things but one of them is start my own business*

We have been working with my mom who is amazing! But she has a lot on her plate. My brother gets married this September, both my brother and I are looking for houses, and my mom is a teacher and high school basketball coach. Not to mention all the other things life throws in your way, death of a family friend and death of Joe Paterno *who was a big influence on my family*. Now that we have set a date, Dave and I can start looking for our vendors and putting our own touches on the wedding.

We already have the church and the priest! Look at us go! We also have our Photographer! Well sort of...we will officially have our photographer when we sign some papers for her. Btw that photographer is the lovely Caise S. of Casie Photographics! We wouldn't choose anyone else to capture our special day. I mean she took these lovely pictures of us:

Aren't they awesome?

Well it's time to go work on more of my check list. Next up: Asking my maids. But first I have to finish their special project!

Bring it all together

So lately things around here have been nuts. Actually it seems like this year in general things have been crazy. I am trying to make ends meet by working 65 hour work weeks when they will schedule them to me, I am trying to plan a wedding, I am trying to factor in time to do things I love and want to do and more.

My favorite thing is wedding planning though. One of my friends and I have even talked about starting our own wedding planning business. Right now it's on hold due to the holiday season and my working a ton of hours, but it's a dream.

So far for the wedding we know only a few details:

I wanted a fall wedding. Due to other circumstances and not wanting to wait two years to get married, fall is out of the question.

We both want a unique reception. We decided to look at some rustic barns in PA and have found a few, but aren't really satisfied with the reviews we are reading/hearing.

Colors. A long time ago I decided I really wanted a teal/blue/chocolate brown wedding. I think we may change the color combo a little and instead of brown use yellow.

Theme. We are thinking of continuing the Tangled theme throughout our reception. That is where the yellow comes in. I think that we won't have to use the purple and that we can put our own twist on it with the teal/blue.

I am hoping to get an inspiration board together soon to post on here. Until then, use your imagination!!